
About Me — My Story
1,900
Days.
A Lifetime of Purpose.
My past is part of my story. My freedom is part of my purpose.
Beyond 1,900.
My past has a number. My future has no limits.
My past is part of my story. My freedom is part of my purpose. And the life I live today reflects the standard I choose to become.
For 1,900 days, Tiwangi Rochelle lived behind prison walls. That's 1,900 days of separation, uncertainty, and circumstances that could have defined the rest of her life. But even in confinement, God was shaping a purpose far greater than the place that held her.
Behind those walls, Tiwangi encountered women whose stories were often unheard, whose potential was frequently overlooked, and whose lives were too easily defined by their mistakes. She saw beyond their circumstances because she understood what it meant to be confined by her own.
What began as a shared experience became a lifelong commitment.
Anchored by the scripture, "Remember the prisoners as if chained with them" (Hebrews 13:3), Tiwangi made a promise to God that when her days of incarceration ended, she would never forget the women she left behind.
On January 31, 2011, Tiwangi walked out of the Texas Department of Criminal Justice carrying more than the experience of 1,900 days. She carried a vision, a promise, and a determination to use her freedom to help others discover their own.
She understood that freedom was more than walking through an open gate. It was the opportunity to rebuild, rediscover, make different choices, pursue purpose, and experience a life beyond the limitations of yesterday.
That conviction gave birth to T.A.M.A.R. (Transformative Aid for Mental Health and Rehabilitation), an organization dedicated to empowering justice-impacted women and underserved communities through rehabilitation, reentry support, behavioral health services, housing initiatives, mentorship, and advocacy.
For more than a decade, Tiwangi has continued returning to the very places she once longed to leave, not as someone confined by prison walls, but as a woman committed to reaching those still behind them.
Through prison programming, reentry conferences, mentoring, community partnerships, and opportunities for women rebuilding their lives, she has turned her personal experience into a platform for service.
From 1,900 days behind bars to 1,900 ways to give back.
But her story did not end with her release, nor is her identity limited to her advocacy.
Today, Tiwangi is a wife, mother, entrepreneur, creator, teacher, philanthropist, and woman who believes in experiencing the fullness of life. She is building businesses, creating opportunities, nurturing her family, growing in faith, enjoying life's beautiful experiences, and continuing to discover what freedom makes possible.
Her journey has taught her that a woman can have a complicated past and still create an extraordinary future. She can make mistakes and still pursue excellence. She can experience setbacks and still move forward with dignity, confidence, and purpose.
And this is the heart behind The Living Standard.
A standard is not about perfection, appearances, possessions, or measuring ourselves against other women. It is about who we choose to become, how we choose to live, the values we demonstrate, and the difference our lives make in the lives of others.
Tiwangi believes that freedom carries both opportunity and responsibility. The freedom to become who God created us to be, the freedom to live intentionally, and the responsibility to use what we have been given to create possibilities for others.
What I Want Other Women to Know
The standard is not perfection. It is what we choose to become.
Read More →